Apply re-validated the preview token after both halves were durable, so a
TTL that lapsed during the write, or an eviction by a newer preview of the
same user, answered "preview expired" for a plan that was already replaced
and withheld both update events. The token is now simply spent after the
commit; validity is decided once, on entry under write_lock.
Route runs dropped by drop_unknown_routes never reached the store unless a
marker happened to be orphaned in the same pass; an idle robot kept them in
memory only and a restart brought them back. The drop now happens under
_refresh_lock, leaves with the orphan transaction or with an immediate
write of its own, and rolls back like #335 when the store refuses.
Tests: HA harness for both apply races and a live config/set route drop,
recorder stubs for the four durability cases; five mutants caught by the
standard runner.
Issue: #495
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